The Path to Sanity

The world fell apart in March 2020. I was at a writers conference in California on the opposite side of the country from home (Alabama). One day after the start of the conference, I flew home. Two people in the airport wore masks. The rest of us tried to follow the advice “don’t touch your face.”  My nose has never itched so much.

Over the year, my grandson was born  . . . without me. Another daughter had to spend months in the hospital with her dying father . . . without me. Many people suffered much worse. So far, I have not lost any family. Actually, I’m am very close to the oldest in what’s left of my family. In the past year, I have been inside exactly one public place. How bizarre.

My mind has done some kind of trick where I can now see the death numbers posted on the side of the T.V. without feeling like I can’t breathe. That’s a good thing, right?  Maybe not. I try to not to watch the tributes to individuals because then I can’t breathe again.

Where lay the path of sanity? The muse deserted me.  I could not put pen to paper except to edit and to write this blog. Fortunately, I had a lot of material to edit, but the more days that have turned into weeks and month, the drier the well of creativity seemed. I had finished my police-witch trilogy (book two, House of Stone) and the eight-year nonfiction project (Behind the Magic Curtain: Secrets, Spies, and Unsung White Allies of Birmingham’s Civil Rights Days). I finished a rewrite of an old manuscript and had no idea where to go next. I felt aimless, adrift.  Everything had a surreal quality.

The first thing I did that gave me a little peace was plucking debris and tiny plants from the green moss on the brick walk from the driveway to the front door.  It took hours; its only purpose was to create a little temporary beauty, but doing it calmed something inside me.

Then I took up the WW, the war on wisteria, a vine that had eaten half my back yard and uprooted several trees. This took months of back-breaking work.  Wisteria sends vines out underground that pop up yards away, making nodes along the way that each grow deep roots straight down. You can pull up one section, but any piece that survives can and will repopulate. I learned to know and love a tool called a mattock. Some days I could only do a tiny amount. But the harder I worked and the more exhausted I was, the better I slept and breathed. But I don’t recommend this as a therapy. Never plant wisteria, at least not the Chinese or Japanese variety.

The Wisteria War lasted through the summer and into fall. I decided to let the back yard become a wildflower garden (except for wisteria) and planted some old seeds that had been sitting out in my garage.  We’ll see if they germinate.

One thing I really missed was my twice-weekly martial arts class. Sometime in November, I decided to learn tai chi, which is practiced solo. You have probably seen old people doing it in a park. I learned it from Youtube videos, and whenever I felt trapped or anxious, I went through the movements. I did it three or four times a day, and it focused me on the present.

Over the winter, I lost my mind and adopted two rescue horses off the track, a Thoroughbred and a Standardbred—Foxy and Nickie Jones. I bought Foxy sight unseen from a Facebook picture at a “kill pen” in Louisiana. Her next step would have been dog food (in Mexico). She is a beautiful bay, although we’ve been working on a skin infection that even affected an eyelid. It’s all getting better. Nickie Jones was an older lady who traveled with her but when she arrived in Alabama, her purchaser backed off because she was injured and malnourished. So, we took her too. Preparation for their arrival took weeks of cleaning out the old barn and working on the overgrown arena and round pen.  Focusing on preparing for them and taking care of them has occupied me and my husband for several weeks now. But I am smitten!

Then a good friend introduced me to a form of art called Zentangle. It is done on little 3×3 inch pieces of stock paper—tiny art. I played with it and decided to add colors. Because it is so small, it is not intimidating like a big canvas would be. I’ve never done any “art thing” beyond doodling, but I’ve always wanted to.  They may not be great masterpieces, but the world fades away when I am working on one.

But still fresh words eluded me. No stories pushing to be born.

Then a friend I never met at that writer’s conference in California (we were supposed to be on a Law Enforcement panel together) emailed me and asked if I were interested in submitting a short story to an editor in Australia who is putting together a crime anthology featuring law enforcement authors and wanted some submissions from women. I am both of those things—an author and a cop, a retired one anyway, a short, gray-haired old lady. I agreed to submit a story. The catch is I had to write it. I had to create it. I told myself—this is like the tiny art. It’s a short story, not a novel. Even so, I was totally blank. But I promised, so I had to do it. One word at a time.

I was delighted and surprised that the words came. It’s about a short, gray-haired old lady who is an ex-cop, a martial artist, and a horse woman who witnesses a murder. I’ve sent it off. ***Maybe I’ll do another short story or maybe I have found a character who could support something longer?  

I hope this helps you find your way through.

***My short story, “The Old Lady” is now in two anthologies: To Serve, Protect, and Write and Work in Progress.

T.K. is a retired police captain who writes books, which, like this blog, go wherever her interest and imagination take her.  More at

About T. K. Thorne

T.K. is a retired police captain who writes books, which, like her blog, roam wherever her interest and imagination take her.
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14 Responses to The Path to Sanity

  1. Wonderful! An inspiring account of good things that have happened not in spite of the pandemic, but because of it. These things help to balance the suffering. Thank you.

  2. Beth Thames says:

    What a treat to read this and to see what you are up to- horses, gardening, art, and writing again. It’s life affirming. Glad you took the horse pals so they could stay together and stay alive!

  3. otebear201 says:

    Making me wonder what I did all year…..

  4. T.K. Thorne says:

    Ha! Lots, I’m sure!

  5. T.K. Thorne says:

    Thank you, Beth!

  6. T.K. Thorne says:

    And thank you for reading and taking the time to comment.

  7. Glad to see you found your way back to words…. Congrats on so many good things coming out in the next few weeks.

  8. Linda Ames says:

    ah, another great read. thank you.
    I started zentangling years ago, and it is a great relaxer. I need to start doing it again. lots of FB zentangle sites. so many ideas.
    be well. keep writing. linda ames

  9. T.K. Thorne says:

    Ah, another zentangler! Thanks for the comment, and I will check out FB. Never occurred to me.

  10. T.K. Thorne says:

    Thank you very much, my friend. And same to you!! Here’s to #4!

  11. tnman38 says:

    Great piece, T.K. It struck a chord. The reopening of my creative door came when I entered a couple of contests that involved mandatory prompts. Thankfully, the first required a 250 word maximum microfiction story. The second, 2500 words. I normally don’t enjoy prompts or word limits, but they worked for me. I’m glad your creative energy is returning and I’m looking forward to the second book of your trilogy. And thanks for rescuing the horses.

  12. T.K. Thorne says:

    So happy your creative door opened! Keep your foot in it! 🙂 The horses gift me back way more than I for them. I am fortunate to have them. (We’ll see if I am still saying that if Foxy decides she is still a race horse….)

  13. Hello matee great blog

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